January 9, 2012
“We’re not bringing the dog into our world when we work stock, we’re entering the dog’s world.”
What a fun, but exhausting weekend I had up at Deb Conroy’s! Deb has an awesome indoor arena and a great set-up for working dogs. Plus, she’s just plain good fun and packed full of knowledge she’s more than willing to share. I took Quinn and Shaine along. I really needed some input on Shaine, she’s a strong, fast dog and I want to make sure I start her right. The handful of times I’ve put her on stock (not at all consistently) I knew things weren’t working. I could see an old pattern raising its ugly head, one I’ve had my fill of: Fighting with my dog. It’s something I did with Quinn, and I’m still working out of.
I arrived at Conroy Farm early Friday evening, and no sooner did Deb get home from work than we were bundling up and heading out to the arena. She wanted to see what problems I was having with the dogs, and where exactly I was at. We worked them several times Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I was a little concerned how Shaine’s knee would hold up. She hasn’t done any intensive work since her surgery. I’m pleased to say, outside of a little stiffness Saturday night, she held up without a gimp.
Quinn just needed some fine tuning ~ the last puzzle piece. And Deb handed it to me Friday night, our first time in. I’ve fought with Quinn. I’m not proud of that. We have a lot of history that’s not all pretty. But one thing I’ve never done is make things totally black and white for him. I allowed far too much grey. If he did something I didn’t like and I put pressure on him, if he laid down, I gave. All that taught him is a down was a good way to get me to release pressure. It didn’t teach him that if I didn’t like something he better stop it or there would be consequences. Once I explained that to him, fairly, but in no uncertain terms, I had a totally new dog. A thoughtful dog. A dog who no longer wanted to rush to push sheep past me, but started to understand that I wanted him to hold sheep to me. A dog who now squares on his flanks (and Deb showed me a trick with my stick that makes so much sense it immediately became second nature), and gives to my pressure. We don’t fight any more. When I step in to check him up, when I turn to end a flank, he no longer tries to get around me to get to the stock. By the end of the weekend, Quinn and I were working as a quiet, calm, team. I barely have to move my stick, and I don’t need to say anything. He is careful and thoughtful, which makes the sheep calm and trusting.
Also by the end of the weekend, I was working Shaine like Quinn on crack. Meaning, instead of flailing my stick, yelling, and making fast movements, I was being calm, quiet and slow (like Quinn, but faster). Yes. You read that right. But it took us a while to get there. I had created a slash and burn problem with Shaine.
As Deb so succinctly and honestly told me, “You created this problem. You can’t be mad at Shaine. Now you just need to fix it.”
And fixing it was HARD! Mainly because we let Shaine do some things that I would have been all over her for – chasing, splitting, barking – but that’s what had caused her on again – off again problem in the first place: Every time she engaged the sheep, I chased her off. Deb had me do the opposite: Every time Shaine engaged the sheep we allowed her to have them, however she wanted. If she was off sniffing, or not paying attention, we put pressure on her. Until I could get her trusting me again, until I could convince her I was going to allow her to work the sheep, I couldn’t start asking her for more. So, until that point, I had to grit my teeth, and allow her to make a mess. Several times, with Deb in there to keep me in line, we got Shaine to bring us the sheep and hold them to us. She fell in, approached at a walk, and stopped ON HER OWN. It honestly brought tears to our eyes. Yes, Deb succeeded in doing what no other trainer has, she made me cry! But damn, it was a good cry.
When I went in without Deb, Shaine regressed a bit, which we knew she would. Within one session I had her working with me again. Our last time in, she kept in contact with the sheep the whole while, even when I started to demand more of her. There was no running off to sniff, no diving in and then leaving, I could check her up, lie her down, send her to bring the sheep to me and hold them. It was fast, and not always pretty, but it was beautiful in a whole different way. I now have something solid to build on.
The weekend was long and exhausting but I accomplished way more than I thought. I’m hoping the weather conditions allow me to train periodically through the rest of our strange winter. Anyone out there have an indoor arena I could borrow on occasion???